INTRODUCTION: BECOMING A CUNNING LINGUIST
Cunning: Skill or adeptness in execution or performance.
Linguist: A person who speaks several languages.
—The American Heritage Dictionary
You have no doubt heard that the largest sex organ is the brain. However, since the brain both represses and frees sexuality, the key to unlocking passion is skill in the language of sex. “Sexual cunning linguists” are comfortable discussing sexual feelings, needs, desires and difficulties. They are also great listeners when their partners share sexual thoughts and feelings. Honest sex talk occurs when people feel safe in expressing themselves. This requires speaking and listening when your heart is informing your brain.
Learning new ideas for increasing sexual pleasure and the verbal skills to put them into practice give “oral sex” and “giving head” an entirely different meaning. With a greater ability to connect to your heart, you will not only have more great sex, but also experience the magic of giving and receiving love in deeper, more meaningful ways. You will possess the ability to avoid sexual problems if you are beginning a new relationship, resolve sexual problems in an ongoing relationship, or transform a good sexual relationship into an amazing one.
With sex so freely flaunted in today’s world, it would seem that people would be more enlightened. Yet, more is known about the physical aspects of sex, and less is known about the emotional and spiritual parts of this intimate union.
From birth, exposure to a flood of sexual ideas that disconnect people from their hearts creates dysfunction. By the time people fall in love, they have been brainwashed with beliefs and images that limit their ability to create fulfilling sex. The challenge in becoming more heart-connected lies in breaking through disconnecting beliefs, fears and wounds.
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